Become a Successful Speed Dater

Speed dating can be a bit of an overwhelming experience if you don’t know what to expect. Remember the purpose of attending this event is to have fun and to meet local singles in your area. It’s as simple as that! Here are some suggestions on how to be a successful speed dater.

1. Show up, duh! You paid and signed up, get your money's worth. The organizers also do a lot of work to have the numbers worked out.

2. Arrive early and stay afterwards to mingle. You’ll have additional time to talk with the other singles.

3. Focus on the person you’re talking to, not on the impression you’re making.

4. Be interested in them and they'll be more likely to be interested in you.

5. Keep it light and fun, don’t take anything personally.

6. Prepare yourself for anything, remember we are all unique individuals.

7. Be yourself. Don’t be a show off.

8. Keep your remarks positive, avoid commenting on other attendees. Appreciation is much more attractive than sarcasm.

9. Follow the rules. Rotate on time and if it is meant to be they will also choose you.

10. Don’t make a snap decision. Take the time to appreciate the other person.

11. Keep alcohol use to a minimum to stay clear-headed and able to think of your there.

12. Take notes. Time passes quickly with little break in between, don’t trust yourself to remember every date.

13. Don’t do the math. It’s not about how many matches you make, it's about the quality of the connections you’ve made.

14. When there is doubt just select yes for the other person. The next step doesn't have to be anything more than a coffee date.

15. Finally, follow up with your matches. You joined us to find someone to spend more than five minutes with, so don’t miss your chance.

Forget about feeling uncomfortable or minding what others think. We at Soul Sidekick are committed to making dating fun again so join us, give speed dating a try and take a shot at love.