A Dating Coach Can Help

When most think of a dating coach they think of someone telling them all the right things to say to meet 'the one'. As a matter of fact there is a lot more to it and if you are still single it may be time to consult with one.

Dating can be a daunting task not only if you are an introverted personality but also if you are very outgoing until you meet someone you are interested in, then all of a sudden you don't even recognize the awkward person you've become - that’s me!

Online dating is making it a bit easier although we all know how time consuming, over populated and difficult to manage most apps can be. Studies are also showing that online dating may have an effect on our mental health, scary. We also are experiencing more 'dating burnout' with singles finding it overwhelming and even unkind with behaviours such as ghosting. We always say the best way to be successful at dating is to just be confident and have fun although this isn’t always as easy as it sounds and can be even harder when you are looking for an actual relationship, we know it's tough out there.

WHAT WE DO

It can be tough to be objective in your own life especially when it comes to dating, that's where we come in.

We at Soul Sidekick help to create a strategy and position our clients effectively on the dating scene. We will work with you to help relief and manage dating-related anxiety and fears, our goal is to create conscious daters. Like with everything in life we can create bad habits, with dating these can be; where we are meeting our prospects, how we are approaching them exc. When you start working with your dating coaching they will spot these patterns that are inconsistent with your vision of dating or a relationship, we want to get you on the right path.

We are here to help you become successful at dating, we can’t make you fall in love, if that is your goal you will have better luck with our matchmaking services. Your dating coach won’t be there holding your hand through a dates or teaching you any manipulation tactics, we aren’t training pick up artists, we help you with your “game” so you can present yourself at your best.

HOW WE HELP

All dating coaches are different. Our program is focused around the communication. For example, interpreting messages without over thinking. Who isn’t guilty of this…?

If you wish to date online we will help with creating profiles that are effective, we also focus on image consulting ensuring you are presenting your most authentic self. Mocking dating is also part of the process. It sounds crazy but is actually a really fun way to build confidence.

Most importantly as a dating coach we are here to offer you with emotional support through the process, while providing you with the tough love you won’t get from a confidant. Remember, we’re your coach, not your friend…

We have all experienced heart break in one form or another, these wounds effect the way we date, we call them “limiting beliefs” meaning that these ideas you have created are essentially sabotaging your dating life. We help you discover what these are and reframe such beliefs to make you a successful dater. There are so many pro’s to this exercise for you’re able to better identify the right people for you, leave those that aren’t behind and most importantly will halt those self sabotaging behaviours.

IS IT TIME...?

We compare hiring a dating coach similar to having a personal trainer. It’s not that our clients don’t know how to date they are just getting a much better work out then they are on their own.

You don’t have to consider yourself a “bad” dater to seek out a professional, anyone can benefit from a coach. It takes a lot of inner work and self reflection. It’s not about getting a makeover and learning some good pick up lines. Our clients really do the work to make positive shifts in their mindset around dating. There will be moments where you feel uncomfortable and vulnerable but that’s what makes it all worth it in the end. If you are interested in learning more about our date coaching services please reach out.